I clocked four hours devoted to this subject on Saturday. I hear people are brainwashed & some have ended up in mental institutions. Landmark's entry course, the Landmark Forum, is the default first course for new participants and provides the foundation of all Landmark's other programs. Why were they all waiting in gleeful anticipation for me to break? No cult, no radical religion: an inspiring, entertaining introduction of good solid techniques of self-reflection, with an appropriate emphasis on action and transformation (not change). the meanings that we have created – into the present and the future. So where is the rub? When you arrive, smiling volunteers give you a name tag and direct you to the conference room where the Forum takes place. The rules are equally precise: the Forum starts at exactly 9:00 AM; no food or drinks are allowed in the Forum room, aside from water; time out consists of two 30 minute pauses for toilet, snacks and phone calls, and one 90 minute dinner period; note taking is discouraged during Forum time, not because of confidentiality of the course material, but because participants are encouraged to give full attention to the Forum leader and the participant “sharing” his or her story at the front of the room. And if they do judge us, so what? At age 60. cigarette, phone, bathroom, emotional overwhelm). If a person expects to encounter some unusual and interesting experiences that can help with goals, communication, and interpersonal relationships, that’s what he will get. We are all inauthentic assholes who lie and cheat our way through life, take the easy way out, and blame other people for our own problems. Delivered by a company known as Landmark Education, the Forum is their flagship course and is presented to over 100 000 people worldwide every year. { 23 comments… read them below or add one }, Hello Admin, I was--as many people--inherently egotistical and vulnerable to judgment--so was intrigued to see what I could learn about myself. (I found the same speech on the web). Junk Science 7. A woman objected to what I considered the most objectionable exercise: the participants had been asked to close their eyes and imagine being afraid of their neighboring participants, then the entire group of 150, then all 7 million of London and finally the 6 billion fellow creatures on the planet, an exercise that had turned into mass hysteria of crying, sobbing, calling out "mommy mommy!" Let us say the participants were not on my side. Else you need to pay 32,000 (7k extra). The truth was that we had breaks every two hours, at which point I stuffed myself with delicacies at various local London diners. We are all concerned with looking good to others and fitting in with others. Examples include acquiring a new language or learning calculus – we can figure out in an instant whether we don’t know Hindi or calculus, and determine how to get from A to B. I called and a friendly man at the other end of the line indicated that my registration was confirmed. For the system to work you have to believe that anyone not exposed Landmark is inferior. It’s well known, for example, that Chuck Palahniuk attended a Forum before writing Fight Club, the novel that was turned into the greatest and most inspirational movie ever. It was this TV program that closed down the Landmark in France, leaving it only 24 other countries in which to spread its word. They take what would otherwise be an inspiring but artificial exercise (whether it be a conversation in a conference room, or a bare-knuckle boxing match in a dive bar’s basement), and redirect that newly liberated energy into transforming participants lives and the environments around them. I just finished my first 3 days at Landmark (I have “graduation” tomorrow), so I figured I’d post a wrap-up to how my experience was. There’s no meaning intrinsic to events that happened in our lives. We recognize that we only have an ego – our egos are not us. He's gotten in contact with me again. Why does no one flinch when we are told to enjoy the fact, in a joke, that the Iraqis after all are afraid of us? In the Forum, all of us participants are encouraged to do our own work of “completing the past”, by calling those people with whom we have conflicts and apologizing for our own contribution to that conflict. Being more playful and irreverent about things (as though I needed help with, Knowing that any hesitation and anxiety in social or interpersonal situations is pointless – life is short, after all – and reminding myself that others are at least as scared of me as I am of them. Just over a year ago, I heard about a three-day weekend program called Landmark Forum, an educational experience presented by a “Forum Leader” to large groups of people (50-200) who sought to improve their life situations by going through this experience. The woman on the stand bursts into tears--"Yes, I am a bitch," she admits--and the leader of the Landmark Forum, Alain Roth, leans forth in victory on the stage. Hence “The Forum.” I experienced discussions about awareness, … What is worse than a know-it-all who could not admit she was a know-it-all? Are you always such a know it all?" Of course, in contrast to Rules 1 and 2 – “do not talk about Fight Club” – we were strongly encouraged to talk about the Forum to anyone and everyone who would listen (as well as those who wouldn’t). She has "cracked": a breakthrough moment. I respected – and respect – these men. Think about it this way, though. ", "Arrogant," Sophie said. ©2021 BuzzFeed, Inc. All rights reserved. Feeling more courageous about setting audacious and exciting life goals, and bringing others on board to help me achieve them. As throughout the Forum, she sprinkled her lecture with an inspiring array of quotes, including my favorite: "A successful person goes from failure to failure with enthusiasm" (Churchill) and concluded, per forma, with moving descriptions of Gandhi and King. Have you heard of the Landmark Forum and want to know what it is all about? Everyone winds up in the same place eventually – dead. The woman burst into tears and thankfully agreed: a new breakthrough! Jerry’s energy level was immense – being the hub of the forum experience for well over 100 people, he was always either listening, speaking, writing on the chalkboards, or running around the stage (and once in a while, around the entire conference room). This is the review of my Landmark Forum experience. The way of presenting is superb. Landmark itself makes the syllabus available on their web site so there’s no big mystery about the specific learnings that one will acquire at the Forum. There’s “what happened” and there’s “my story about what happened”. (“Well, I appreciate your apology. 150 participants sat in a pleasant room in downtown London and listened to Sophie give a humorous lively presentation of the Landmark's key tenets. Landmark Education incurs legal defeat in New Jersey Federal Court (2005) by Rick Ross sister projects: Wikipedia article, Wikidata item. ETs & UFOs 5. The specific knowledge I acquired was relatively simple and straightforward. Hey, It was amazing to go through your post, that was really so useful and informative! The end. Then I went to the stand. These opinions ranged from extremely positive (“The most important three days of my life, bar none.”) to extremely negative (“They are a cult – all they want is your money, and they’ll never stop calling you once you’re on their list.”). One woman in the US said it made her confront her mother, who had beat her, after 20 years of avoiding all contact. His most urgent philosophy, repeated throughout his speeches, is that one must have a commitment to truth without ever presuming its absolute nature. I just did not see any reason to 1) prevent critical thinking and 2) make evangelism the marketing strategy of the Forum. Logic & Perception 8. The uncomfortable and “unreasonable” homework assignments are another common theme between the Forum and the movie. "When you die, the tombstone will read, X was abandoned at a school one afternoon by her parents, and her life has been a revenge on that moment ever since. A few weeks before the Forum, I got a postcard asking me to confirm my registration by phone. I snuck into the stall next to this woman when she took a bathroom break and told her I thought she had been manipulated. We all know how we approach new situations with prejudices of the past. Sophie was a gifted speaker, who kept our attention and enthusiasm during each twelve hour day, making her speeches seem original, with personal anecdotes; only later, searching the web, do I find the same speeches cited by other landmark leaders: the "nothingness" argument, the "Citizen Kane". Most people, however, don’t realize this, since they are knee deep in the games of creating conflict, impressing others, and being right. Assuming these two things to be the same is the source of much pain and conflict. The tenets are prologue to practice. Without exception, each participant would burst into tears and realize what a "worm" she or he was. "Okay you win," Sophie said. Landmark is extremely well-organized. Get cancer. The smile would disarm the participant with its evocation of tough love, and the concluding statement was always a heartfelt: "thank you.". This kind of stuff has a Very Important Purpose, dammit. After a topic is presented, the leader often asks the participants to share in conversation with the person next to them what they’ve learned, and how it might apply in their own life. cummings on "nothingness". You ruined her life, admit it, for your own selfish purposes. She also mentioned her personal life again, how upset she had been when on her honeymoon, as a young girl married to an elderly millionaire, the man sadly had an aneurism and died (leaving her millions), and how she would have continued to live in disappointment, with rackets, but the Landmark convinced her to leave the past behind. The focal point of the room is a low stage riser with chalkboards, a table, and a tall chair for the Forum leader. This inspiration is clear in a lot of the language that I encountered in the Forum – “thank you for sharing yourself with us”, “let’s acknowledge so-and-so”, and so on. One participant at the break said he objected to my critique of the Luther and Gandhi references. Previous post: Don’t believe everything you think, Next post: Everything you believe is wrong (but that’s OK). I know that if I received a tearful and apologetic phone call from a person with whom I had a conflict, I’d be curious about how they arrived at the decision to take that action. And of course, in the words of Caesar (echoed by the movie): The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you would ever look. You've got some racket going on!" I clocked the first three hours of the Sunday session to the subject: including suggestions to bring our children for special youth landmark forums geared to get them started early in the Landmark, at age fifteen (alone) or at age eight (if accompanied by a parent). What could be at stake was a re-evaluation of the meaning of "parental love", unsettling cherished French clichés about how relationships worked. Thanks for sharing in detail. Completing the past consists of: forgiving ourselves for what happened (even if it wasn’t our fault), and forgiving others whom we have been blaming and “making wrong” for their roles in past events; and consciously choosing to let go of stories and meanings that we have previously attributed to those events. We learn that most people perceive their future in terms of their past, using past traumas to interpret and predict what will happen to them in the future. One husband of a participant even came to an evening session to thank the leader for giving him back his wife. If you want to help her now, you can go kill yourself. Very useful and knowledgeable blog. If they had integrity, they would, like Martin Luther King or Mahatma Gandhi, take courage to spread the beliefs of the Landmark Forum to all their friends, enroll them in the program, get them to come to the famed Tuesday night ending ceremony for their free introductory session. Already it seemed that Channel Three had unfairly presented the program as a cult using brainwashing techniques à la Taliban in Afghan internment camps. I finally decided to try out the Forum for myself after two different conversations with a couple of intelligent and well-balanced friends. Associate Professor of Cinema and Theater at the University of Paris 8; member of the TransCrit Research Group. If the stakes were higher, I might have been stoned. This post was published on the now-closed HuffPost Contributor platform. From that awareness comes a fundamental shift that leaves people more fully in accord with their own possibilities and those of others. "You win but you have won nothing. If you need to flag this entry as abusive, The essential guide to taking care of your mind and body. Asking myself if I was blaming other people or situations (“making them wrong”) rather than taking responsibility for my own thoughts and feelings. Create your meaning; there is none inherent in the world. We’re urged to examine our “rackets” – the situations where we execute habitual, disempowering behavior patterns by complaining that something or someone should be different from how it actually is. Transformation is simply deciding and declaring a new way of being, tout court. First thing’s first… it took me a long time to get to the Forum. Hey! What a worm you are." He tried getting me to go to the Landmark Forum after using my vulnerable state to get my address and tried to get my credit card information. of being judged and criticized – to do any judging themselves. The “sharing / coaching” segments of the Forum often wind up with participant in tears, and / or the leader shouting at the participant. You just wanted her to keep away from men because you were rejected by men. Why the Landmark is so popular, attracting l million participants annually, with an 86 million dollar revenue and 3 million dollar profit (divided among only 400 employees, as the Landmark relies on obsessed volunteers to run it), why it inspires upper middle class people around the world (at 700 dollars a weekend, it is only for those with means) not only to enroll, but to continue taking classes (which oddly enough, get more expensive, as one gets more "advanced") is that our industrialized societies have apparently led to a breakdown in values beyond individualism and capitalist gain. Well, not at the participant, exactly, but at the mental cage of bullshit and lies in which they are trapped. The TV announcers had said the room was purposefully darkened with no windows, that people were not allowed to go to the bathroom except on a limited break during the entirety of each twelve hour day of the three day weekend, and that eating, except for one evening meal, was prohibited. It is a script. I once dated a man part of this "forum" they call it & after I said I wasn't interested he didn't want to date me anymore. What does this say about group psychology? Such a amazing post very informative and I will definitely suggest other people about it for sure. She repeated the most original philosophy of the Forum, one that I was quite taken by: don't change your life, transform it. The concluding remarks were powerful. On the other hand, the Forum is described as a means for getting access to the category “we don’t know that we don’t know” – those blind spots in interpersonal relations, habits, or behaviors that keep tripping us up because we don’t even know that they are there. So you've heard about the Landmark Forum, you're curious to find out what it's all about, and you are worried to see that Google autofilled your search to "Landmark Education Cult". Homework assignments were to call our loved ones and apologize for the years of victimology; coffee breaks became the cherished moment to make phone calls to parents and friends. The insights she had gotten about her relationship were far more important. Another young man began repeating verbatim the "nothingness" argument, as if finding no contradiction with his earlier avowed dedication to serve Christ. The crowd, on command, burst into hysterical howls of laughter, aching belly howls that went on and on and on, an event which frightened me far more than my 6 billion co-inhabitants, as a demonstration of how easily mass emotion can be created, just by urging one to recall primordial fears. Less well known than Fight Club, Revolver is about a gangster recently released from prison who finds himself in the middle of an intricate con game run by two mysterious strangers. I’m trying to kill it. True my point was valid, but couldn't I accept that a mass of average people might get so much mileage out of the inspiration of being compared to these great leaders that I was spoiling their fun if I was too logical and "intelligent" about it? Go kill yourself. Tweet Just over a year ago, I heard about a three-day weekend program called Landmark Forum, an educational experience presented by a “Forum Leader” to large groups of people (50-200) who sought to improve their Executive Success resembles motivational groups such as the Landmark Forum, the Sterling Institute of Relationship and Lifespring. "You're lying. Participants, having heard the argument drone in their ears for 9 hours in a period of 72, began to cheer and smile as they raised their hands to say they too had the courage to stand for the Forum. "I'm not racketing," I said. The effect would have been the same. Forgiveness is a key feature of most of the world religions; so is living for a clean present. 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